Yeah, the spoiler I accidentally saw gave away who was going to die, so I thought I was prepared for it but then when the scene was approaching you could see it coming (e.g., wolves locked, soldier locking door shut) I seriously felt really scared because the scene was completely horrifying.
Well, I'm upset because I love the Starks (I'm sure they're written to be loved by the readers/audience), Robb was one of my favorite characters, and Robb and Lady Talisa's relationship was also one of my favorites. But I definitely love the series more for how it stirs such strong reactions, and the Red Wedding scene was portrayed effectively but I looked it up on wiki and it seems like there was even more in the book (like what they did with the dead bodies).
I've been lazy with the books (only on the first), but now I'm more motivated to keep up with it, although I'm going to be scared to read the Red Wedding part. I honestly don't want to go back and watch it again.
But ughhhhhhhhh there's a part of me that almost doesn't care anymore what happens to the rest of them.
I'm still very interested in the overall story though.