Celedam wrote:koregaboku wrote:the gossip itself is gossip, sure
And right there you disproved your entire point. Even you don't really care about the content of the gossip, you're just arguing for the freedom to discuss it. Which I respect in most cases, but not in this case.
Why? Because everyone who matters has already acknowledged that the gossip was salacious and hurtful. Everyone who matters has already expressed a desire to move on. We can only guess whether Ogata will return to the group some day, and in the meantime we will deal with the situation as it is.
So, please explain to me why we must look backwards and dig through that gossip, post by post by post.
I'm actually quite interested in discussing the "gossip" but was trying to be respectful of yours and others wishes not to discuss it at length. Jplop is my one-stop-shop for H!P so unless it's discussed here I won't be discussing it elsewhere. I have no desire to Google my way to H!O.
But to the point, you also conveniently dropped the part of the sentence where I mentioned the difference being that it was (is?) gossip perpetuated by a HP member herself.
That puts it in a significantly different tier of gossip than your run of the mill "Some fan saw Airi sitting next to a boy on the bus and omg they were talking and she was LAUGHING!! Is it her boyfriend?!!"
That shit is dumb and speculative.
This however may come with some exaggerated grains of truth. Does Saori have a boyfriend and does that mean she's the next one out? This wouldn't be the first time there have been rumors about her having a boyfriend/breaking the boyfriend rule and with it coming from a fellow Tsubaki member... Well there may be some truth to it.
Just because you would prefer not to discuss it doesn't mean it shouldn't be discussed. Others in this thread have already expressed interest in discussing it yet you have come in highly discouraging it.
*For the record, I find the no relationship rule quite possibly the most perplexing idol-rule but it is what they all signed up for (although ethics could be raised around parents and companies having children/young teenagers agreeing to it).