randompasserby wrote:Wasn't planning on participating much on this thread but ah well, might as well throw a few cents here and thereBakajo Nono wrote:They're far too young to understand what exactly they're swearing off when they sign contracts at such a young age, and then by the time they have advanced through puberty and all the hormones have stopped wreaking havoc, they've been disciplined by the industry through years of training, education, and every other way they are so completely immersed into the industry to view sex in a slut-shaming light. I'm not saying they do, in the end, view it that way, but it inevitably shapes the psyche over such extended periods of time--and especially with such deep immersion and intensity. That's how schools work to promote nationalism, hierarchy, etc.
Not to mention, again, the paradox they face when they sing songs about romantic life, act in sexualized ways, and yet are restricted from actually engaging in any of it in any way.
-This contract that they supposedly sign? Fan conjecture. We know nothing about the actual details of any contracts signed between the agency and the idol + their guardians. If anything any kind of punishment for "improper" behavior is more likely decided after the fact and with many considerations to the circumstances, as we can recently see from the varying punishments in the **48 family for practically identical offenses.
-How does abstaining from dating in their tweens suddenly becomes viewing sex in a slut shaming light? A lot of the people around me don't even date until after they finished high school, not because they were forbidden to but because they don't really consider dating as an obligatory life experience/rite of passage in high school as much as others think they are and as far as I know they don't have negative views on sex or relationships in general just because they never dated in their tweens. Personally I think people can have discipline enough to stay away from distractions when you're pursuing other things you consider a higher priority without warping their world view so much. Putting time restrictions in their schedules aside, athletes also stay away from binge eating fast foods, scholarship hounds doesn't have time for silly video games/cartoons, musicians/artists/performers and I'm sure many others types of people besides idols makes all kinds of little sacrifices along the way.
-I don't think personally experiencing the things they sing about was ever a requirement for any artists/musicians, especially those that don't even write their own music. It certainly adds some value but I can't see how it's a paradox.
- Okay, fan conjecture, but then why was there a scandal when Mari was dating Shun? When they asked 9th gen if they had secret boyfriends or whatever they said they didn't want to lose their job/love Morning Musume too much to risk it or whatever. If it's not in their contract, how could the industry enforce banning love or whatever?
- I didn't say abstaining from dating in their tweens was what caused viewing sex in a slut shaming light. I was more extending Kita's point about it--the fact that there are "scandals" about it is slut shaming.
- No, it's not a requirement for artist/musicians, but it's not just the music. It's the photobooks, and fanservice (although I think that word has a racier connotation idk it's late I'm tired) that is geared towards their large male audience that they perform without actually being able to engage in it--in fact being forbidden from it.