esm wrote:Not with a tour group (not into those)
Agreed. A friend of mine has done a few Rick Steves tours and loved them, but I think they would drive me crazy. I need freedom to see and do what I want and not waste time on stuff that I'm not interested in. That's why I prefer to travel solo.
If I can meet up with friends with similar interests for bits of the trip, great! But I don't want to impose my crap on anyone else any more than I'd want to suffer through theirs. Case in point: I love to spend HOURS AND HOURS rummaging through used CD shops in Tokyo, which would be a fate worse than death for any friends or family that I might drag along with me from back home. But spending the day shopping in Shibuya with iceymoon and her husband was a blast.
I'm not a big fan of compromise. Relationships are not something that I do well. I always hated group projects at school, but luckily I've found a group of competent, simpatico Tolkien scholars with whom I can collaborate successfully, where everyone is contributing to make the project better and nobody is dragging it down.
On the flip-side, I'll be getting together with some of my old college gang on Saturday, and we're currently accumulating everyone's likes and dislikes re pizza toppings. I expect that I'll end up paying twenty bucks for a couple of slices of pizza loaded with garbage that I don't like. (It's going to be Chicago-style stuffed pizza, which doesn't lend itself very well to removing unwanted toppings.)